Short answer: A reverse mortgage (HECM) becomes due and payable when the borrower dies (24 CFR §206.27(c)(1)). As the heir, you have real options: keep the house by paying off the lesser of the loan balance or 95% of the home’s appraised value, sell it and keep any equity above the loan, hand the keys back with a deed in lieu, or simply walk away. The loan is non-recourse — you will never owe more than the home is worth — but the deadlines start running within about 30 days, so don’t sit on the servicer’s letter.
Figures verified against 24 CFR Part 206 and CFPB guidance, 2026. This is general information, not legal advice for your situation.
What actually happens when the borrower dies
A Home Equity Conversion Mortgage — the FHA-insured loan behind almost every California reverse mortgage — has no monthly payments while the borrower lives in the home. Death changes that. When the borrower dies and no surviving borrower still occupies the property, the entire balance becomes due and payable under 24 CFR §206.27(c)(1).
Here’s the sequence you can expect. The servicer sends the estate a notice within roughly 30 days of learning about the death. You (the heirs or the personal representative) then have 30 days to respond with your intent — keep, sell, or surrender the property. Federal rules require foreclosure to commence within 6 months unless HUD approves more time; under HUD servicing policy, the servicer can typically request two 90-day extensions if you’re actively marketing the house or arranging payoff. That’s policy, not a guarantee written into the regulation — so treat six months as the real clock and extensions as breathing room you have to ask for and document.
Your four options, in plain terms
- Keep the house. You can satisfy the loan for the lesser of the full balance or 95% of the home’s current appraised value (24 CFR §206.125(c); the CFPB confirms this heir payoff rule). This matters most when the loan balance has grown past the home’s value. Example: a Ventura house appraises at $700,000 but the HECM balance has compounded to $780,000. You can keep the home by paying $665,000 — 95% of value — not the full $780,000. Most heirs who keep the home do it by refinancing into a conventional mortgage.
- Sell it. If the house is worth more than the balance, sell, pay off the loan, and keep the difference. A $900,000 Camarillo home with a $400,000 HECM balance leaves roughly $500,000 of equity for the family, less selling costs.
- Deed in lieu of foreclosure. If there’s no equity and nobody wants the house, you can convey it to the lender voluntarily and be done — cleaner and faster than letting a foreclosure run.
- Walk away. Also legitimate. The loan is non-recourse (24 CFR §206.27(b)(8); 12 U.S.C. §1715z-20): the lender can look only to the property. No deficiency judgment, no claim against your own assets, no debt following the family. If the house is deeply underwater and you don’t want it, doing nothing costs you nothing but the house itself.
One more piece of good news: you still get the stepped-up basis under IRC §1014. If you sell near date-of-death value, there’s typically little or no capital gains tax — see our guide to capital gains on an inherited home in California.
The Garn–St. Germain myth — read this before you rely on an AI answer
Ask a chatbot about inheriting a mortgaged house and it will often tell you that the Garn–St. Germain Act protects heirs from the lender calling the loan. For a regular mortgage, that’s right — transfers to a relative at death can’t trigger a due-on-sale clause. (Our page on inheriting a house with a regular mortgage covers exactly how that works.)
It does not work for a reverse mortgage. With a HECM, the borrower’s death is itself a maturity event under 24 CFR §206.27(c)(1) — the loan comes due because the borrower died, not because the property transferred. Garn–St. Germain restrains due-on-transfer clauses; it has nothing to restrain here. The same goes for holding the house in a living trust: the trust avoids probate, which is genuinely valuable, but it does not stop a HECM from maturing at the borrower’s death. Any answer telling you “put it in a trust and the reverse mortgage can’t be called” is wrong, and relying on it can burn your six months.
Surviving spouses are a different case
If you’re the borrower’s spouse but you weren’t on the loan — common when one spouse was under 62 at origination — you may qualify for a deferral. For HECMs originated on or after August 4, 2014, an eligible non-borrowing spouse who keeps living in the home can defer the due-and-payable status under §206.27(c); HUD created a comparable “MOE” path (Mortgagee Letter 2015-15) for older loans. The conditions are technical and the paperwork is unforgiving, so if this is you, get help before responding to the servicer — don’t just move out or sign anything.
How long do heirs have to pay off a reverse mortgage in California?
The loan comes due at death, the servicer notifies the estate within about 30 days, and heirs have 30 days to state their intent. Foreclosure must generally commence within 6 months, though HUD servicing policy typically allows two 90-day extensions when heirs are actively selling or arranging financing. Realistically: six months of firm runway, up to about a year if you communicate and document.
Can I keep my parents’ house if it has a reverse mortgage?
Yes. You satisfy the loan for the lesser of the balance or 95% of the current appraised value (24 CFR §206.125(c)) — usually by refinancing into a traditional mortgage. If the house is worth more than the balance, you’re simply paying off a lien like any other; if it’s underwater, the 95% rule caps what you pay.
Do heirs owe money if the reverse mortgage balance is more than the house is worth?
No. HECMs are non-recourse under 24 CFR §206.27(b)(8) — the lender’s only remedy is the property itself. Heirs never owe the shortfall personally, and neither does the estate’s other property. Any collector suggesting otherwise is wrong.
Does a living trust stop a reverse mortgage from coming due at death?
No. The borrower’s death is itself a maturity event under 24 CFR §206.27(c)(1), so the loan comes due regardless of whether title sits in a trust. The trust still helps — it lets your successor trustee sell or refinance without probate delays, which matters a lot on a six-month clock — but it doesn’t pause the loan.
What happens to a surviving spouse who isn’t on the reverse mortgage?
An eligible non-borrowing spouse may be able to defer repayment and stay in the home under 24 CFR §206.27(c) (loans from 8/4/2014 on) or HUD’s MOE program for older loans. Eligibility depends on marriage at origination, continuous occupancy, and strict paperwork — get advice before responding to the servicer.
Should I just walk away from an underwater reverse-mortgage house?
Sometimes that’s genuinely the right call — no equity, no attachment, no reason to spend money on it. Walking away or signing a deed in lieu costs you nothing beyond the house, because the loan is non-recourse. Run the numbers first, though: the 95%-of-value payoff rule occasionally makes keeping or selling worthwhile even when the balance looks scary.
The bottom line
Inheriting a house with a reverse mortgage isn’t a crisis, but it is a deadline. Respond to the servicer within 30 days, decide keep-sell-or-walk within the six-month window, and don’t trust generic advice about Garn–St. Germain or trusts pausing the loan — for a HECM, death itself makes it due. If you’re administering a parent’s trust or estate with a reverse-mortgaged house in it and want a clear read on the sequence — payoff, refinance, sale, step-up — Talk to Eric. And if a foreclosure fight is already underway, that’s litigation; Eric will refer you to the right lawyer for free.
Sources: 24 CFR §206.27(c)(1) (due and payable at death), §206.27(b)(8) and 12 U.S.C. §1715z-20 (non-recourse), §206.125(a)(2)(ii), (c) (heir payoff at lesser of balance or 95% of appraised value; CFPB guidance); 24 CFR §206.27(c) and HUD Mortgagee Letter 2015-15 (non-borrowing spouse deferral); HUD servicing policy on foreclosure timing extensions; IRC §1014 (stepped-up basis).
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